My husband is strictly self-employed and I have one job that is self-employment. So I know first hand how bad that stinks! I do however typically get some amount returned for overpayment because of my other job. I always claim zero throughout the year so that they take plenty of taxes out of me. That way we don't end up owing the government any. They owe me lol!
It's kind of funny how people think about their refunds. (I am the same way) It's like we get all excited about it as if it's free money or something. However in reality we just gave the government an interest free loan throughout the year and now it's time for them to pay up.
It is our money to begin with.
I just read that last years average return was a little over $3,000. Thats awesome.
As I said before my return will be gone as soon as I get it this year. I still have to pay off my daughter's trip to Europe and thats the only way it's going to happen!